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Women Are Big On The Little Things Men Do For Them

2011-09-13T03:08:00.001-07:00

Women want men who possess these qualities

Sentimental and romantic without being mushy
Funny without being embarrassing
Intelligent enough not to make her look stupid
Adventurous but does not leave her behind
Smell good, but is not drowning her with his perfume
Committed but not jealous

If you want to know how to attract women, get good at doing the little things. The average single woman is not looking for perfection but she wants a little piece of heaven once in a while.

Hold her hand

Holding a woman's hand announces to the world that you are proud to have her walking beside you. It is also a statement that says you are taken, which is a form of respect she will be impressed by.

Take Notice

Take notice when she has changed her hairstyle or bought a new dress. This is a clear indication that you really see her. A few compliments will not hurt either!

Be a Gentleman

Women still love to have a door opened for them or a chair pulled out for them when they are at a restaurant.

Cook for Her

There is nothing more special to a woman than a man in the kitchen cooking the meal. It says that you appreciate her and want her to relax and be pampered.

Call Her

When you call just to say I miss you or I love you, you have struck gold! She will be thinking of you all day.

Buy her a little something

Women love the little things, like love notes and cards. You can spend a lot of money on expensive jewelery and she will still consider those love notes to be among her most cherished possessions.
[Source: Random Thoughts on Dating and Relationship]

Must-Read: Have Yourself Some Wild Sex

2011-09-13T01:19:00.001-07:00

Would this really be a week if we didn’t lay down a link to some sex tips in these parts?This week, it’s all about her. Namely, what she likes. And by finding out what she likes, that means she’ll actually want to have sex with you, which means that you’ll be getting more sex from [...]
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[Source: How to Talk to Girls and Dating Tips for Men]

Q & A: How to Make a Woman Bow Down to You

2011-09-12T23:57:00.001-07:00

Q. Here's the situation, Doc: She seems nice and sweet. She is also a bit of a smart-ass, which I like. She's always "subtly" hanging around me and talking to me, smiling, taking peeks at me. She'd always ask me how my day is going, laugh at my jokes, do things for me...You know..."nice"!

The funny thing is that so far I hadn’t met ANY resistance with her...none. Talking to her...no problem. Got her number...that was easy. Setting the date up...easy! No problems! Now on the "date"...there WAS a problem! Maybe you can figure out the problem because I'm lost!

You see, I didn’t frame it as a "date" but rather I set up a "get together". I always do that. She was there on time where we were to meet which was the mall and we did some shopping. When we first met my original plan was to go to this place that has an arcade, a bowling alley, ice-skating, and put-put golf. It sounded like fun to me! But she said she wanted to stay at the mall and that was fine because that was my second option. Plus she bought some things while she was there. So I had two possible plans in place.

We shared a few laughs and there was some kino going on. Not a whole lot but enough to keep it interesting. We talked a lot (well, I let her do most of the talking) and everything was going smooth until...

Her dreaded cell phone rang and it was some guy that asked her to meet her somewhere! She NEVER said anything about having a boyfriend and I felt it'd be AFC-ish if I asked if it was! So, I didn’t ask. In fact when the phone rang I told her "Tell them you're busy!" I think cell phones on a date are rude anyhow! Oh, but it wasn’t a "date" it was a "get-together!" Hmm. Whatever it was I still thought it'd be rude if she talked more than a minute.

Anyhow, she made it quick like I told her...
[Source: Random Thoughts on Dating and Relationship]

How To Get The Girl You Want

2011-09-12T10:46:00.001-07:00

I was out at a bar last night with a friend in the West Village, sitting at the bar having a late dinner. We were there for about an hour. While we were there, I saw a guy walking around talking to basically every woman or group of women who were standing or sitting around [...]
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[Source: Seduction Chronicles Dating Tips]

Must-Read: 50 Best Baseball Plays Ever

2011-09-12T08:38:00.001-07:00

Baseball is terrible right now. It’s in this weird dead area when there is not a single question of who is getting into the playoffs (maybe in the AL West between Texas and the Angels, but the Angels are so terrible despite being so good, that it’s kind of tough to root for them to [...]
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[Source: How to Talk to Girls and Dating Tips for Men]

Must-Read: The Importance of a Good Server

2011-09-12T07:38:00.001-07:00

There’s that scene in Goodfellas where Ray Liotta and Lorraine Bracco go through the back of the Copacabana restaurant, through the kitchen, through a few murky hallways, and right into the best seat in the house. You know the one I’m talking about. The one where it shows one of the many perks of being [...]
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[Source: How to Talk to Girls and Dating Tips for Men]

The First Phone Call

2011-09-12T07:31:00.001-07:00

At some stage, you may wish to take your online dating to the next level - a phone conversation. If you are nervous about your first phone call, don't be. Soon enough, you'll be talking
on the phone like you've known each for years.

So whether you've already fallen in love over email - or you want to test them before you get serious - our advice will help you make a great first phone call.

Smile and Calm Down

Remember to smile while you are talking. Smiling can calm you down, and make you fell more comfortable. The other person will be able to "hear" your smile - which will help them relax
as well.

When to Make the First Call

Plan your first call. Make sure you have no distractions around at the time - like other people. Your attention should be focused solely on them.

Topics of Conversation

If you are scared about awkward, uncomfortable silences, take the time to prepare a "Topic List". Write down a few topics to talk about, so if you get stuck for conversation, you can
pick something from your topic list.

Chose a few topics that you have been talking about on line. This help you both feel comfortable with each other, as you have already discussed the topics online.

How to Finish the Call

Don't just say "goodnight" and hang up. Organise your next phone call, or at least mention that you would like to speak again.

If you don't want to speak with the other person again, mention this also. It is best to be honest! If the other person isn't interested in you, remember that there are plenty of other
people looking for love online!

[Source: Random Thoughts on Dating and Relationship]

Closing: Why Can’t You Seal The Deal With Women?

2011-09-12T06:58:00.001-07:00

Dear Speed Seduction® Student, How do you move closer to your destination? Take a step toward it. How do you eat the giant elephant? One bite at a time. Claiming your results with women you truly desire is not much … Continue reading →
[Source: Ross Jeffries Uncensored]

What to Do When Facebook Dating Goes Wrong—Minors

2011-09-11T17:10:00.001-07:00

Facebook dating isn’t foolproof—not by any means. As a matter of fact, this is one of the easiest ways to end up in trouble with online dating, since dating on Facebook is generally done on a more personal level. However, there are certain ways that you can get around certain situations with other Facebook daters. [...]
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[Source: Facebook dating | Facebook date | Facebook flirt]

Q & A: How to Use Mystery to Attract a Woman

2011-09-11T17:00:00.001-07:00

Q. I have the hots for this girl I’ve known for about a year. We have spent time together and I know she feels the same.

My problem is, I’m separated from my wife and it's putting her off. I need to know how to make her jealous without making it obvious and also how to eventually win her heart.

Maybe she feels I’m not to be trusted cause I’ve cheated on girls before. I know she feels the same but I don’t want to make a fool of myself. Thanks...

A. Hello,

Well, you could get back with the ex and have the best sex of your life – that’d make her jealous! No, I think there’s a better way.

I think you really want to do two things:

1) Make her jealous; and,

2) Change her mind about you, your ex and your past.

If you just go out and start banging a bunch of women and make it obvious, she's going to think you're a player, which will just put her off even further.

On the other hand, if you just seem to be busy - and aren't around when she calls or wants to talk, her feminine mind will start working and you'll have the power you're looking for. So, do this:

1) Be scarce. Don't answer the phone, and take at least a few days to call her back.

2) Never answer the phone, or make return calls to her on the weekends - after all, you're busy, right?

3) Always cut any conversation with her short by saying, "Oh, sorry - I have to run. I'll call you later... bye." [click!]

4) Talk about the great time you had with a "friend" the other night. Don't specify the sex of this "friend".

5) When you are out with her, have fun! Make your time with her something to remember – but don’t hesitate to flirt a little with other women too. Bring them in and make the part of the party!

Finally, for God's sake - don't talk about your wife with this woman other than to say how much you’re over her! ...
[Source: Random Thoughts on Dating and Relationship]

Conversation Tips for Date

2011-09-11T14:37:00.001-07:00

To keep your date interesting and lively, it’s important to strike up some good conversation.

For some people, this comes totally naturally, but unfortunately for others, it can be the start of a nightmare.

As a general rule, avoid the following areas of conversation:

Death or tragedy
How much you earn
Politics
Religion
Sex
Your plans for marriage and family life

Don’t reveal too much about yourself early on.

Never discuss you past dates or sexual conquests.

Stay clear of the old “chat up lines”. These don’t work on date. You will end up feeling stupid if you crack an old chat up line or pun that your date does not find funny at all.

One for the men here. Do NOT talk to her breasts. Women hate this and find it degrading and will soon run a mile.

You may find this difficult as you obviously find her attractive to be on the date in the first place, but keep those eyes well clear.

You want to try and sound confident during your date, but not cocky. Try not too talk about yourself too much and if you do, only when asked. You need to sound confident in yourself, but not overconfident !

You want to sound like you are comfortable holding a decent conversation in any situation.

Keep the conversation flowing nicely by using open-ended question. For example.

“If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be and why?”

By asking why at the end, prompts for more than a one word answer and will inevitably lead to more questions from you. Be genuinely interested in the answers.

Try to be witty, funny and entertaining, but don’t act like a clown. Your date will soon disappear.
Never lie. If you are asked about a particular situation or subject, and you feel your date is not going to like answer, try to steer clear without looking like you have something to hide.

Wait until ...
[Source: Random Thoughts on Dating and Relationship]

A primer on asking questions

2011-09-11T11:51:00.001-07:00

One of the biggest misunderstandings guys seem to have involving social skills is how and when to use questions.

Back in the day when I got involved in the whole Secret Underground Internet Seduction Community (SUISC) most of my teachers considered asking a woman a question in the first few minutes of an interaction equivalent to spitting herpes blood in her eye.

There were tactics and posts about turning questions into statements and of course the rise of routines etc...

But there never seemed to be a guide to how and when to use questions. Being that I am by far the most normal of the pickup instructors I set out to understand how I was able to ask questions and not get a bad response early on.

Turns out questions are not the worst thing in the world even during the beginning of a conversation, instead what really dooms guys when asking questions is the follow-up.

Most guys ask questions like this:

Guy: Where are you from?
Girl: San Diego
Guy: Cool, what do you do there?

Most guys (especially on bootcamps) follow up questions with a ratifier(Agreeing that what the girl said is cool or acceptable) followed by asking another question. This is BORING, and doesn't demonstrate anything interesting or attractive about you.

There's nothing inherently boring about the question but the way it's followed up, makes me want to stab the fictional guy in the jaw.

Instead you want to use questions early on to either tease, transition to a new conversational subject or to relate and play up a commonality between you and the girl.

Let's look at each of these:

Teasing
Guy: Where are you from?
Girl: San Diego
Guy: Uh oh SD girls love to party, mental note do not date this girl.

Transitioning
Gu...
[Source: The Sinns Of Attraction]

Online Dating Tips For Men

2011-09-11T11:31:00.001-07:00

You may have impressed someone online with your great profile and emails, but your first real life meeting could make - or break - your relationship. Our advice can help you make a great first impression on a potential partner.

First impressions are often made in under ten seconds. If you can present yourself well in the first few seconds, and the minutes that follow, your first date will be a big success.

Remember to be yourself. Be confident in your own skin, and it will show. Even though you may be incredibly nervous, remain calm. A great icebreaker could be making a joke about how nervous you're feeling!

Be on time. Plan to leave your home 15 minutes earlier than you would need to, just in case anything happens along the way. If you are running late, call ahead.

Smile. A smile shows that you are a positive, attractive, vibrant person. Smiling will also help you to calm those nerves, and your dates.

People will judge another person on various characteristics. This doesn't mean that you need to be a tall-dark-handsome-man or a blonde-blue-eyed-femme-fatale. Instead, pay attention to the little things, like:

your posture and body language

eye contact

personal hygiene

good dress sense

outward confidence

your smile

Women should not dress in revealing clothing for the first date. Wear something that makes you look and feel good. Guys should wear stylish clothing that is clean and ironed. First dates are not the best times to wear your new outfit for the first time.

On the rest of your date, you will need to build on that first impression. Concentrate on being happy, fun, kind, humorous, confident, and most importantly - yourself!

Negative impressions are just as easy to create as positive impressions. Your date will not be impressed if you act immature, shallow...

[Source: Random Thoughts on Dating and Relationship]

Are You Getting Derailed by Generalized Anxiety?

2011-09-11T09:01:00.001-07:00

I’ve had a relatively good day. Got up early in the morning to work out. Felt refreshed and relaxed during the day. At 630, I meet up with my friend. We are going to hit the happy hour bars in New York City. We meet up in the Barnes and Noble café. We chat a [...]
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[Source: Approach Anxiety]

What Women Find Attractive

2011-09-11T08:52:00.001-07:00

I don’t care what you look like or how much money you make or even if you’re not physically her type, if you know what women find attractive, you can trigger those attraction switches and compel her to become attracted towards you…as David DeAngelo states, attraction is not a choice.
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[Source: Scandalier]

Is Body Language more Important than Words?

2011-09-11T07:34:00.001-07:00

On the forum, Zhelyazko asks: [It's been said that] only 7% of all communication is verbal the other percents are in way of speaking and body language. Do you agree with the findings of this study and what does it mean? How you tell a story is way more important than what the story actually [...]
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[Source: Approach Anxiety]

FREE “Becoming Fearless” Around Women Book - Christian Hudson & Nick Sparks

2011-09-11T05:37:00.001-07:00

The guys over at The Social Man have a new free book to download called “Becoming Fearless“…Download the 35-page report here…They also just released the full Fearless program…Check out the full program here…So what is this “fearless” stuff all about you ask?Well, a lot of guys hold themselves back and feel pressure around girls they [...]
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[Source: e Seduce]

What to Look For When Choosing a How-To Book on Meeting and Attracting Women...

2011-09-11T02:26:00.001-07:00

What to Look For When Choosing a How-To Book on Meeting and Attracting Women...

Have you ever noticed that there are at least as many sites out there proclaiming to know how to get game with women as there are women out there?

How many of these 'writers' can actually score chicks? Answer: not very many.

Hmmm... I wonder if they've got a scam going...

Well, I'm here to clear the air for you on this one, and help point you to the best online dating information has to offer. I'll show you how to spot the fluff from the Real Stuff.

Let's look at the warning signs:

First of all, do you get the impression when you load their sites or look at their documents that these guys haven't quite finished fourth grade? They pepper their information with plenty of crude terminology and misspelled words, or they're promoting the concept of getting easy one-night stands with ANY woman at ANY time -- claims that no man could make. Take a look at their content and decide whether it's someone you'd take credibly for any kind of service, much less dating and sex advice. I'd have to click away from a site that looks like it was cobbled together with sappy graphics and a bad font. And if he can't show me more than a miracle penis-enlargement cure, it's time to move on.

Next, what do you think the credibility is of a guy who looks like your perverted uncle, has a PHD from a school in Outer Mongolia, and looks like he's been dating since they first scribbled the word on papyrus? Ask yourself, is this short, bald guy with a beer-belly REALLY getting some ass, or just your cash? There's a lot to be said for the guys who appear to be getting laid. Not that you should judge solely on appearance, since we all know that's not the essential trait, but if he looks like a fashion nightmare...
[Source: Random Thoughts on Dating and Relationship]

War On The Game: What 100K buys ya...

2011-09-11T02:18:00.001-07:00

Hey hey,

Today I have an informational video on what you can buy if you have an extra 100k laying around.

Check it:

JS-The King Of Content
[Source: The Sinns Of Attraction]

What to Do When She Opens You

2011-09-10T13:56:00.001-07:00

They’re stunning. Two amazing women walk out the front door of the restaurant. My friend and I are sitting at a table outside. We noticed them inside earlier and even saw some eye contact, but conditions weren’t right to open. I’m sitting there in conversation with my friend when they walk over to us. “I’m [...]
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[Source: Approach Anxiety]

Why Dinner Dates Suck

2011-09-10T11:39:00.001-07:00

Why on earth would you take someone out for dinner on a first date… unless of course the woman is homeless and she needs a good meal. To sit across from somebody and watch them chew down food while you tell each other the same stories you’ve told a hundred times is boring! It is [...]
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[Source: Seduction Chronicles Dating Tips]

Q & A: How to Use Mystery to Attract a Woman

2011-09-10T09:58:00.001-07:00

Learn To Be Confident And Take Rejection in Your Stride!

2011-09-10T09:41:00.001-07:00

No matter who you are or where you are from, rejection will happen to you at some point, whether it be a job interview, a loan application or asking for a date. The key to success in dating is knowing how to handle the inevitable rejections. When you get rejected it can be quite upsetting and you may start to question yourself. DO NOT TAKE IT PERSONALLY.

The most successful date seekers laugh in the face of rejection and simply try again.

Do not expect high success rates in singles bars and dance clubs. Try normal, everyday, common places instead.

Broaden your horizon.

If you must date only the best looking men or prettiest girls, your rejection rate is going to be much higher.

Be realistic.

The more you date, the more skilled you will become and besides, there is no known link between physical appearance and dates that are the most fun.

Rejection is definitely not fun. However, a rejection is only one person's opinion. You don't like everyone, and everyone isn't going to like you. If someone says no, then he or she misses out on getting to know great you really are.

Take care of yourself and always improve physically, intellectually, emotionally, and spiritually.

Looking out for yourself and feeling good about yourself will make you confident. Again, if you can take care of yourself, there is a good chance you can take care of others. If you appear that you can fulfill the needs of others, you are attractive.

Brainwash yourself by looking in the mirror everyday and telling yourself that you are an attractive person. If you could convince yourself that you are attractive, you would soon feel attractive. Feeling attractive will make you feel confident. Confident, in return, will make you attractive. This is a classic self-fulfilling prophecy.
[Source: Random Thoughts on Dating and Relationship]

Flaking Video

2011-09-10T08:28:00.001-07:00

Hey Guys,

I've been getting some questions on flaking so I decided to make a quick video to explain what's REALLY going on.

Check it out here:

And if you find yourself in need of more information on Eliminating Flaking Forever check out the Flak Elimination toolkit Here

Best,

JS
[Source: The Sinns Of Attraction]

How to Talk to Girls Online and Get the Number

2011-09-10T06:23:00.001-07:00

If you don’t look like a Calvin Klein underwear model, learning how to talk to girls online isn’t going to be easy unless you learn how to separate yourself apart from the hordes of average guys by knowing what to say, demonstrating higher value and always being the prize.
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[Source: Scandalier]

Running Out Of Things To Say

2011-09-10T05:27:00.001-07:00

Approaching women but quickly running out of “things to say”? Yes, it is a big problem, because it prevents you from moving to the next step after the approach. You...
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[Source: Luv Blogger | Dating Blog | Pickup Guide]

Can You Handle Her Slut Side?

2011-09-10T02:40:00.001-07:00

Remember the movie A Few Good Men, when Jack Nicholson looked at Tom Cruise and said, “You can’t handle a good blow job!” Well, ok, he didn’t really say that. But in my version he did. So you meet a new woman, and she’s so full of sexual energy. She’s usually anywhere from 28 to [...]
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[Source: Seduction Chronicles Dating Tips]

Learn To Be Confident And Take Rejection in Your Stride!

2011-09-06T18:43:00.001-07:00

The Hottest Sex Positions Of 2011

2011-09-06T12:40:00.001-07:00

I just want to send you a quick heads up, my friend Shawna has put together 4 awesome free reports. You’re going to want to check these out for sure! There’s no catch, or nothing to buy, just some good information to help you learn how to really please a woman in the bedroom and [...]
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[Source: Seduction Chronicles Dating Tips]

What Not To Do On an Approach- Video Breakdown

2011-09-06T10:27:00.001-07:00

Hey there,

I was fwd this video and thought I'd write out a few comments on what this guy is doing right and wrong.

The video's pretty funny in and of itself so props for that

Obviously the guy is self amusing with the whole penis pick up idea which goes to show that you can get away with a lot when you're having fun yourself.

This guy has kinda slumping body language though. The first thing I would fix is his posture, he needs to stand up straighter rather than trying to lean like he's nonchalant.

Kong does a good job of transitioning from his functional opener (like asking where the nearest Starbucks or fancy restaurant is) into a statement of intent by admitting he doesn't really care about what he was asking, he really just thought the girl was cute. This is a good tactic when you get a positive response, though it does fall flat a few times in this video because he does it too early. Generally you want to use a statement of intent when the girl seems interested right off the bat.

The main thing that is missing in these approaches is teasing and a transition into attraction material. Kong asks some questions and builds a good amount of social comfort, but he never breaks that comfort in order to generate the necessary emotional momentum to move into the attraction phase. He does use a few disqualifiers like saying he's a big dick, but it comes across more as him being over the top and goofy than as a real disqaulifier that will make the girl want to win him over.

Overall this video was entertaining but I would be surprised if any of those girls answer his calls or texts.

If you really want to learn how to approach even better and more successfully than this guy, check out the video I posted HERE
...
[Source: The Sinns Of Attraction]

Must-Read: Sex Foods!

2011-09-06T08:19:00.001-07:00

We spend a decent amount of space her talking about how to get women in the mood. Be it by taking them out on dates, by wearing the right clothing, by using the correct moves while at the grocery store, or by making the smart investment choices in your business in order to make money [...]
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[Source: How to Talk to Girls and Dating Tips for Men]

Negging Techniques

2011-09-06T08:12:00.001-07:00

Personally, I first read about “negging” in one of Mystery’s books. He discusses it a lot, and it is an important part of his pick up method (which is actually...
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[Source: Luv Blogger | Dating Blog | Pickup Guide]

Online Dating Tips For Men

2011-09-06T05:55:00.001-07:00

First impressions are often made in under ten seconds. If you can present yourself well in the first few seconds, and the minutes that follow, your first date will be a big success.

Be on time. Plan to leave your home 15 minutes earlier than you would need to, just in case anything happens along the way. If you are running late, call ahead.

Smile. A smile shows that you are a positive, attractive, vibrant person. Smiling will also help you to calm those nerves, and your dates.

your posture and body language

eye contact

personal hygiene

good dress sense

outward confidence

your smile

On the rest of your date, you will need to build on that first impression. Concentrate on being happy, fun, kind, humorous, confident, and most importantly - yourself!

Negative impressions are just as easy to create as positive impressions. Your date will not be impressed if you act immature, shallow...

[Source: Random Thoughts on Dating and Relationship]

How To Get The Girl You Want

2011-09-06T03:45:00.001-07:00

It’s Been Awhile Since We Mentioned Christina Hendricks

2011-09-06T03:39:00.001-07:00

One of the stipulations of our contract is that we are allowed to post photos of Christina Hendricks once every few months. This guarantees that we will be allowed to view the gorgeous Hendricks on a regular basis, which makes toiling in front of our computer in the darkness of our lair that easier to [...]
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[Source: How to Talk to Girls and Dating Tips for Men]

Q & A: How to Make a Woman Bow Down to You

2011-09-06T02:37:00.001-07:00

How To Approach Women: Will “Cocky” And “Funny” Work Every Time? Or At All?

2011-09-06T00:36:00.001-07:00

Dear Speed Seduction® Student, I’m often asked about the best manner or vibe for a man to put out when he approaches a woman for the first time. Though the specific questions vary, a few common themes emerge. Are cocky … Continue reading →
[Source: Ross Jeffries Uncensored]

How to Tell if a Girl Likes You

2011-09-05T22:43:00.001-07:00

How to Tell if a Girl Likes You Knowing how to tell if a girl likes you can be a subtle art and something that a lot of guys can easily overlook if they don’t pay close enough attention to the interaction. Some indicators of interest (IOIs) are obvious but some are subtler. Since most [...]
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[Source: Scandalier]

Facebook Dating Pictures—For Guys

2011-09-05T20:35:00.001-07:00

Facebook dating pictures for guys are a little bit different than those for girls. However, their Facebook dating pictures do have the same basic principles. Keep these tips in mind as you take pictures that will help you to snag dates while dating on Facebook! 1. Make Sure You’re Dressed Neatly If you have [...]
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[Source: Facebook dating | Facebook date | Facebook flirt]

RJ Critiques Awesome Student Sarge!

2011-09-05T19:34:00.001-07:00

Dear Speed Seduction® Student, A great way to teach you how to succeed with women is to let you see how it works in real-time. A student of mine asked me to critique a recent supermarket pickup he did. Watch … Continue reading →
[Source: Ross Jeffries Uncensored]

Pickup lines: How YOU Doin'?

2011-09-03T19:15:00.001-07:00

A man walks into a bar. He looks at the voluptuous blonde seated next to him and asks innocently, "Why don't you sit on my lap, and we'll talk about the first thing that pops up?" She giggles delightedly, and they go home together.
Yeah, that might happen.

Pickup lines can be one of the cheesiest elements of the American social scene. Skanky men approach tube-topped nightclub sluts and ask them if their father stole the stars out of the sky or if they are an angel fallen from heaven. In maybe one out of a thousand cases, the woman actually takes the bait and offers a dance — or maybe more. But more often than not, super-obvious lines just don't work.

"Pick-up lines are a big turnoff," says Sarah Tierney, a junior at the George Washington University. "Guys say stuff like 'What's your name? Can I take a shower with you?' It's so gross. The worst part is that you know he's tried that same line on half the girls in the place."

"Why do people think that pick-up lines are sexy?" asks Elizabeth Hoeffner, a senior at Dartmouth College. "Guys use these gross, worn out lines."

Guys aren't the only ones on the lookout for a mate, however; women often approach guys in the hope of kindling a quick romance, or maybe just for some flirting entertainment. Women twirl their hair and reveal some leg then offer subtle, innocuous questions like, "Do you come here often?" or "Didn't I see you once in a college soccer game?" to lure men in.

Forth Bagley, a junior at Yale University, says girls use more subtle techniques to express interest. "The other day a girl in my apartment building knocked on the door, and when I answered she giggled at me and asked if I had a Bruce Springsteen CD she could borrow. It was kind of lame."

There are a few distinct types of pick-up lines. Th...
[Source: Random Thoughts on Dating and Relationship]

Why Women are Attracted to Older Men

2011-09-03T16:54:00.001-07:00

“I’m so embarrassed,” I text her. “I’m wearing a thin white shirt and it just started raining. Women are staring at my chest.” “C’mon,” she texts back. “Can you blame them for ogling?” She gets the joke immediately. If she had sent me a text that men were ogling her chest, it would not have [...]
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[Source: Approach Anxiety]

Longtime Student Reveals His “Bullshit Shield” That Gets Him Top-Quality, Hot Women!

2011-09-03T13:13:00.001-07:00

Dear Speed Seduction® Student, Hot off the presses! Here is a great testimonial video I just received from a longtime student. Click “Play” now and watch as he explains, in his own words, how he used Speed Seduction® to create … Continue reading →
[Source: Ross Jeffries Uncensored]

Seduction - Self Help Guide

2011-09-03T10:48:00.001-07:00

SECTION 1 - DOING IT

MINGLE - move around while shooting small talk at people. NB: This is the one and only MUST, when it comes to seduction. Majority of those failing at romance, do so just because they never realized this.

AURA OF SULTRINESS - picturing something arousing and allow that arousal to control body and facial expression. Highly recommendable, partly because it cures shyness, and partly because it makes you more appealing.

TOUCH - touch people briefly to underline points and emotions during conversation. Touch people more/longer when a romantic vibe is growing. Highly recommendable!

INVITE - whenever positive vibes, invite people to go somewhere. "Lets sit over there!" "Lets dance!" "Lets get some fresh air!" "Lets get coffee!" "Im hungry - what food do you have at home?" ... The more you do this, the better. It creates good vibes and feeling of togetherness.

SECTION 2 - BOOSTING SEX APPEAL

NUTRITION - eat 80% animal/bird/sea foods and 20 % plant foods. Plant foods should mostly be nuts and low starch vegetables. (Eliminating sweets, grains, fruits and starchy vegetables.)

HEAVY LIFTING - do a routine focusing on increasing strength in dead-lift and squat. Example is Starting Strength by Rippetoe.

POSTURE - avoid bench press and similar lifts if upper back is rounded. Form habit of:
-Head, neck and shoulders pulled back.
-Chest out.
-Belly pulled in.

Green: Push forward. Red: Pull back.

STYLE - bad odors can ruin everything. The right clothes can make you much more sexy.

Firstly, fix any odor issues if you got them:
-Bad breath: floss!
-Smelly feet, groin or arm pits: Eliminate soap. Use just water and a scrub or peeling product.
-Stubborn fungal infections: Google "athletes foot" to find home remedies....
[Source: ijjjji]

Sargeant J. Cat, “Ross’s Favorite Pussy”

2011-09-03T04:19:00.001-07:00

Dear Speed Seduction® Student, I’ve had my nose to the grindstone working on the “Showing Up Attractive” and “Sexual Aggression Mastery” courses that we’ll be releasing in just a few weeks. So, I took a break and took a stroll … Continue reading →
[Source: Ross Jeffries Uncensored]

The Hottest Sex Positions of 2011 (FREE PDF Report)

2011-09-03T02:13:00.001-07:00

Sex advice coach & adult film starShawna Lenee has put together afree report called:“The Hottest Sex Positions Of 2011“…Download it here (FREE!)It has 2 hot girls demonstrating11 different kinky sex positions…These sex positions aren’t just forshow - each has a specific angle tohit the g-spot and maximize orgasms…Go look at it by clicking here…Since you’re [...]
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[Source: e Seduce]

How To Get The Girl You Want

2011-09-02T21:18:00.001-07:00

Seeking Medical Advice for Your ED

2011-09-02T20:13:00.001-07:00

Picture this: You’ve just gone out on a great date with an attractive woman. The conversation was engaging, she had her hand on your knee the entire time, and you definitely felt sparks. When you arrive at her doorstep, she invites you up, and you oblige. Things start getting hot and heavy when you two [...]
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[Source: How to Talk to Girls and Dating Tips for Men]

How To Get The Girl You Want

2011-08-29T18:06:00.001-07:00

My Favorite Places To Meet Girls

2011-08-29T17:18:00.001-07:00

Chicks, man. They’re all over the freakin’ place!But, that being said, there are some places that kinda stink for meeting girls (like a bingo hall on a Tuesday night), and other places that are just unreal. So, in this short article I’m gonna run through a few of my favorite places to meet girls. These [...]
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[Source: How to Talk to Girls and Dating Tips for Men]

Leave It To The Expert: YOU

2011-08-29T14:48:00.001-07:00

In the odd chance you don’t subscribe to Kraft Food’s Twitter feed or keep up on cream-filled cookie news, you might be interested to know that Nabisco has recently signed athletes Shaquille O’Neal, Apolo Ono, Venus Williams and Eli Manning as spokesmen for its new Triple Double Oreo line. That’s right – these sports greats [...]
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[Source: How to Talk to Girls and Dating Tips for Men]

How to Write Facebook Dating Messages

2011-08-29T14:39:00.001-07:00

When it comes to Facebook dating, one of the most important things is catching their attention. Let’s face it—if you’ve used Facebook for dating before or if you’ve ever used any dating site before, you know that some girls and guys just ignore you. And you’re probably wondering why. They say that they’re looking for [...]
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[Source: Facebook dating | Facebook date | Facebook flirt]

Hooking Her Interest: The First 5 Minutes

2011-08-29T10:48:00.001-07:00

Dear Speed Seduction® Student, This is the first of two mini-lessons on hooking her interest that I’ll be sharing. The second will arrive in a couple days. (I know, I know, I’m a tease.) What are some of the key, … Continue reading →
[Source: Ross Jeffries Uncensored]

Awesome Men Throughout History: Caravaggio

2011-08-29T08:02:00.001-07:00

This installment of Awesome Men Throughout History dips into the world of classical art, most notably that of sixteenth/seventeenth-century Italian painter Michelangelo Merisi da Caravaggio. Luckily for us, he’s known primarily as Caravaggio. Still hard to pronounce and spell, but at least it’s one name instead of three.Caravaggio’s work and its impact are easier to [...]
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[Source: How to Talk to Girls and Dating Tips for Men]

Are You Getting Derailed by Generalized Anxiety?

2011-08-29T07:12:00.001-07:00

Q & A: Being A Sexual Being

2011-08-28T23:12:00.001-07:00

Q. A few months ago left I left my country and girlfriend of two years as a transfer student. My girlfriend became tired of a long-distance relationship and we stopped keeping in contact. However, I met a girl whom I fell for at first sight, but owing to my "loyalty", would not approach her. A few days ago, I put everything about my former love life behind and finally asked this girl out. That was when something happened - I found out that this girl has a the identical personality as my girlfriend! The way she speaks, looks at me, laughs-even her jokes have the same ring to them. I'm not imagining this!

I was thrilled at first, but to my horror I found I had lost the ability to get turned on by her! My former relationship hovered around sexuality but we never got down to it since we felt it would destroy the "magic" of the whole thing. Well, after meeting this girl, I cannot be turned on by anything, I have no sexual attraction towards her, but I've fallen in love with her.

In addition to that, I've developed a fear that I'm not good enough for her. I'm just a poor transfer student in strange place falling in love with a girl who has everything I don't. Believe me, I never had these fears before - Dating-Insider completely dispelled them and radically changed my social life. But what should I do? Is my inability to get turned on psychological? It seems to be getting worse! Maybe the solution is damn easy and doesn't require much, but I need to be set in the right position to start rectifying things.

Please help me!!

"On the brink"

A. Hello "Brink",

Very interesting situation!

You'd be surprised how common it is to find someone that is very much like, or, even exactly like someone that we've been with before. People talk about this all the time, but it is...
[Source: Random Thoughts on Dating and Relationship]

The Bare Minimum

2011-08-27T18:17:00.001-07:00

Short post today, really more of a reminder.

There is NO prize for getting extra social comfort, attraction, qualification, comfort or arousal.

Instead we should all (Myself included) be aiming for the bare minimum amount of communication between us and the women before we can have sex.

Think about that for a few minutes, what is the bare minimum way that you could:

-Start a conversation
-Tease a woman
-Make a woman emotional
-Build attraction
-Convey value
-Qualify
-Build Comfort
-Seduce

Food for thought eh?

Post some ideas in the comments section and if there's any good ones, I'll share them in a follow up post...

JS-The King of Content
[Source: The Sinns Of Attraction]

Confidence With Women and Why You Need It

2011-08-21T13:20:00.001-07:00

A lack of confidence with women is a big hurdle for many guys to overcome but something that can easily be gained through experience and the right mindset. This article aims to address your confidence with women or lack thereof and get you to a point where you’re able to let go and approach. I’ll cover why you lack confidence; a simple exercise that allows you to overcome rejection and approach confidently, how having confidence improves all areas of your game and finally how to get it.
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[Source: Scandalier]

5 Ways to Tell if You’re in the Friend Zone

2011-08-21T08:41:00.001-07:00

If you’re looking to become romantically involved with a woman, the very last place you want to be is in the friend zone. Some men disregard the friend zone, believing that eventually any girl will come around if you play your cards correctly.This is a mistake.The friend zone is very real and will bring you [...]
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[Source: How to Talk to Girls and Dating Tips for Men]

The Bare Minimum

2011-08-21T06:22:00.001-07:00

How to Kiss a Girl

2011-08-20T21:45:00.001-07:00

Knowing how and when to kiss a girl can be a daunting task for many guys who haven’t had much experience with them or still don’t exactly know what they’re doing when the moment arrives. The following quick guide will make your next make out session one she will never forget and she’ll probably tell her friends about later.
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[Source: Scandalier]

Blog Break

2011-08-20T18:48:00.001-07:00

Hey there,

I know everyone was tuning in for more war on the game stuff, but I'm going to be going on a 2 week break from writing the blog/making videos to re-charge creatively so that I can get back to cranking out quality posts as opposed to what I've been writing the past few weeks/months.

So I'll be back in 2 weeks, hopefully with my content writing fastball back.

Best,

JS
[Source: The Sinns Of Attraction]

Lame Pick Up Lines

2011-08-20T10:59:00.001-07:00

One of the first things that I’ve learnt from the pick-up community, reading the books of Mystery, Style, and others, was that “Pick Up Lines Don’t Work”. By “Pick-Up Lines”,...
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[Source: Luv Blogger | Dating Blog | Pickup Guide]

Must-Read: Thank Your Wank, Gents

2011-08-20T10:10:00.001-07:00

Who did you last Wank it to?We’ve all been there. You have some “alone time” and you’re lying in bed, or sitting in front of your computer, or crawling into the self-made comfort hole in the back of your masturbatorium. Your thoughts are racing as to which person from your past (or your hopeful future) [...]
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[Source: How to Talk to Girls and Dating Tips for Men]

Can You Handle Her Slut Side?

2011-08-20T07:36:00.001-07:00

Pickup lines: How YOU Doin'?

2011-08-20T03:45:00.001-07:00

Limited Time Offer For 5 Minute Chemistry

2011-08-20T03:37:00.001-07:00

Earlier this week, I closed the doors on registration
for my brand new, groundbreaking Secrets of 5
Minute Chemistry program.

But because I made the mistake of closing it down on
a holiday where a lot of guys were away from their
computers, I've decided to open up spots again for
the next 48 hours ONLY.

Get your copy here:

Last Chance

The 5 Minute Chemistry Formula that you learn
in the program truly is groundbreaking and might
be the best thing I've created.

Here's what one guy who went through the program
had to say about it:

"Since I started using the formula, I have been
getting crazy chemistry with girls in a matter
of minutes.

For example I recently started a conversation with
a sexy lawyer on my lunch break. We effortlessly
connected and found out we both go to the same dive
bar that everyone in town hates.

The conversation seemed to have a 'spark,' since
she has been texting me non-stop. I particularly
like how easy it was to incorporate the formula
into my everyday normal conversations that
flowed naturally.

I haven't had to memorize a routine or think
about what to say ever again!"

NICK N.
CINCINATTI, OHIO

If you want to create amazing chemistry and have
the effortless conversations that Nick is having, then
I suggest you grab your copy of the program before
it's gone for good:

Last Chance

Best,

JS

P.S. The Secrets of 5 Minute Chemistry program
is only going to be availalble for the next 48
hours. Sign up right now while it's fresh
on your mind:

Last Chance
[Source: The Sinns Of Attraction]

How To Be An Alpha Male

2011-08-20T00:57:00.001-07:00

In the Pick-Up community, it is common to refer to an “Alpha Male”, which represents a man who is extremely attractive to women. In fact, this term comes from biology,...
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[Source: Luv Blogger | Dating Blog | Pickup Guide]

Online Dating Tips For Men

2011-08-19T22:37:00.001-07:00

First impressions are often made in under ten seconds. If you can present yourself well in the first few seconds, and the minutes that follow, your first date will be a big success.

Be on time. Plan to leave your home 15 minutes earlier than you would need to, just in case anything happens along the way. If you are running late, call ahead.

Smile. A smile shows that you are a positive, attractive, vibrant person. Smiling will also help you to calm those nerves, and your dates.

your posture and body language

eye contact

personal hygiene

good dress sense

outward confidence

your smile

On the rest of your date, you will need to build on that first impression. Concentrate on being happy, fun, kind, humorous, confident, and most importantly - yourself!

Negative impressions are just as easy to create as positive impressions. Your date will not be impressed if you act immature, shallow...

[Source: Random Thoughts on Dating and Relationship]

How to Tell if a Girl Likes You

2011-08-19T20:46:00.001-07:00

How Much of Your Life Do You Spend NOT Taking Action with Women?

2011-08-19T20:32:00.001-07:00

I quit going to the gym. Why? Is it because I’m lazy? Nope. I’m driven as hell. Is it because I don’t want to get huge and muscular? Nope. I’d love to have a killer physique. It’s for one reason: Time. Every morning, I get up and I workout for about 20 minutes before breakfast. [...]
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[Source: Approach Anxiety]

Online dating: Trust, Honesty & Safety

2011-08-19T07:02:00.001-07:00

Online dating presents the modern single with many new opportunities. At the same time, more opportunity brings more risks. Until you meet a person face to face, it can be hard to know the truth about them.

In any relationship, there must be a certain degree of trust, honesty, and safety. People in online relationships can often mask the truth about themselves, bringing trust, honesty, and often safety into question.

Is your new online relationship built on trust? Are you being honest with each other? Are you ensuring your own safety? Our guidelines below are designed to help you with all of your online relationships.

Never reveal any personal information. Your first name should be sufficient. If anyone begins to pester you for your last name, you should consider avoiding them. Use a webmail account for any email correspondence - don't use your ISP-assigned email address.

You should also never tell anyone where you live. Never let anyone know the street or surburb you live in. If you live in a small town, it may be safer to only mention what state you live in.

Be cautious when answering any personal questions, as you don't really know who the other person is. The less personal detail you provide them with, the safer you are.

You may be wondering how anyone can trust you if you are not telling them the truth about yourself. Remember that your safety is much more important than being truthful. Check every email and message you send, to ensure that you do not accidentally give any personal information out.

If the other person begins to get angry with you because you won't tell them your street address, this should be an indication that they may not be entirely trustworthy.

Some people that you talk to online may make you feel quite awkward, either through th...
[Source: Random Thoughts on Dating and Relationship]

What Women Find Attractive

2011-08-17T10:29:00.001-07:00

Price Goes Up in LESS THAN 48 Hours…

2011-08-17T09:06:00.001-07:00

Dear Speed Seduction® Student, Get Your Copy Before the Price Goes Up… Time is running out to get your hands on the Speed Seduction® Total Immersion 2011 Seminar Footage Collection at the special launch price, PLUS the two free bonus … Continue reading →
[Source: Ross Jeffries Uncensored]

How to Get Personal

2011-08-17T02:55:00.001-07:00

I’m going to keep this article simple. It’s about asking personal questions to women, for a romantic intention. You see, most guys ask a series of boring-ass questions hoping that at some point, the women will just drop her panties and have sex. How many questions do you have to ask before this happens? Infinity.Here’s [...]
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[Source: How to Talk to Girls and Dating Tips for Men]

Online Dating Tips For Men

2011-08-17T00:29:00.001-07:00

First impressions are often made in under ten seconds. If you can present yourself well in the first few seconds, and the minutes that follow, your first date will be a big success.

Be on time. Plan to leave your home 15 minutes earlier than you would need to, just in case anything happens along the way. If you are running late, call ahead.

Smile. A smile shows that you are a positive, attractive, vibrant person. Smiling will also help you to calm those nerves, and your dates.

your posture and body language

eye contact

personal hygiene

good dress sense

outward confidence

your smile

On the rest of your date, you will need to build on that first impression. Concentrate on being happy, fun, kind, humorous, confident, and most importantly - yourself!

Negative impressions are just as easy to create as positive impressions. Your date will not be impressed if you act immature, shallow...

[Source: Random Thoughts on Dating and Relationship]

Olivia Wilde Is Worth The Price Of A Movie Ticket

2011-08-16T22:25:00.001-07:00

We saw the new body switch movie The Change-Up starring Jason Bateman and Ryan Reynolds over the weekend. It was fine. Parts were funny, many parts were not, overall it was somewhere between a dud and a hit. In most cases, it would have simply just passed under our radar and we wouldn’t say two [...]
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[Source: How to Talk to Girls and Dating Tips for Men]

Learn To Be Confident And Take Rejection in Your Stride!

2011-08-16T22:04:00.001-07:00

Dressing for a Big Deal!

2011-08-16T21:54:00.001-07:00

For most men it doesn’t happen often, yet when an invitation to a formal event graces your mailbox it can make even the toughest guys knees shake. How often have you cursed the fact that women get away with just about anything? They can wear whatever ridiculous frock they like and their choice is in [...]
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[Source: How to Talk to Girls and Dating Tips for Men]

PUA Videos

2011-08-16T21:49:00.001-07:00

Today I want to talk about a great way to learn how to pick-up women. The problem with learning pick up over the internet, is almost all the material that...
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[Source: Luv Blogger | Dating Blog | Pickup Guide]

Q & A: She Won't Have Sex When The Rules Change!

2011-08-16T21:42:00.001-07:00

Q. I've been in a relationship with this one girl for a while. In the beginning, things were fun and sexual. But as time has progressed, things have taken a turn for the worse. It all started right around the time I met her. Boy, I should have watched for those warning signals more closely!

Right from the start, she said she was tired of men only wanting her for sex. I feel sex is an important part of the relationship, but she doesn’t think so. We were sexual before but now she says it's not important and she wants to wait until marriage before she has sex again. I have no intention on marrying her and this "no sex" deal is really putting a strain on this relationship and me. I can’t deal with it, Doc. It's important to me.

But if she even THINKS I'm talking to other women, she gets angry, hostile, and extremely jealous. I could be talking to my mother and she'll think it's another woman and she explodes like a ticking time bomb. It could be a female friend or a family friend and she gets furious. The insecurity and jealousy also has become a problem as well as her lack of trust and she admitted openly these have always been issues with her.

Another thing is that even before we were together, she didn’t like me talking to other women, when we were just dating! She didn’t like them near me, over my house, nothing! Also, as this relationship has progressed, she has become increasingly more demanding and trying to be controlling too. She gets mad when I miss her phone calls, she gets upset when I ignore her for any length of time (even if I'm busy running errands or with work) and this whole situation is pushing me closer and closer to the door. I confront her on her bad behavior every time and she'll simmer down for a while, then she gets started again...
[Source: Random Thoughts on Dating and Relationship]

Who Let The Marketers in, Neil Strauss did...

2011-08-16T21:40:00.001-07:00

Hey y'all(Shut up I lived in Texas for 2 years I get a Y'all)

Today's video is outstanding if I do say so myself.

Best,

JS-The King Of Content
[Source: The Sinns Of Attraction]

Blog Break

2011-08-14T17:56:00.001-07:00

War On The Game: Rob Judge Does The Damn Thing

2011-08-14T13:57:00.001-07:00

I usually restrict the War on the Game stuff to Monday but today Rob Judge(Who I think is easily the best writer in the SUISC) posted an epic article on why he hates Neil Strauss.

It brought almost brought a tear to my eye...

Check it out:

Why I Hate Neil Strauss

JS
[Source: The Sinns Of Attraction]

Suit Yourself!

2011-08-14T12:07:00.001-07:00

Hate them or love them. If you belong to the half of humanity that sports xy chromosomes you won’t get around wearing them at least occasionally: Suits!Given that you can’t beat them, you might as well join them! After all suits have serious outline enhancing capabilities, turning an A shape into a V shape or [...]
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[Source: How to Talk to Girls and Dating Tips for Men]

Q & A: Being A Sexual Being

2011-08-14T09:13:00.001-07:00

First Date Conversation Topics

2011-08-14T03:59:00.001-07:00

A first date is probably the most common way to develop a relationship between men and women. Although some people might tell you the opposite, a first date has not...
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[Source: Luv Blogger | Dating Blog | Pickup Guide]

How to Tell if a Girl Likes You

2011-08-14T02:39:00.001-07:00

First Phone Call To A Girl

2011-08-14T01:14:00.001-07:00

Today I would like to talk about what happens, after you approach a girl and get a girl’s phone number. The fact that you’ve got her phone number means that...
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[Source: Luv Blogger | Dating Blog | Pickup Guide]

How To Get A Girl To Kiss You

2011-08-13T23:04:00.001-07:00

You’ve probably faced this once before: You are sitting with a girl, having fun, chatting. But how do you move from this situation towards a kiss? Well, it is indeed...
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[Source: Luv Blogger | Dating Blog | Pickup Guide]

Must-See: Hometown Hotties 2011

2011-08-13T21:36:00.001-07:00

This seems like a fine way to close out the week.If there’s one thing we like better than images of scantily clad and attractive women, it’s images of as-yet-unfamous scantily clad and attractive women. And if there’s one thing we like even more than that, it’s having the ability to allow our voice to be [...]
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[Source: How to Talk to Girls and Dating Tips for Men]

Why Do Women Have to Fight Over Me?

2011-08-13T19:46:00.001-07:00

I don’t like when women fight over me. I’m not enticed by the prospect of a two-woman bar brawl ignited over the possibility of going home with me. Can’t we all just get along? I scan the uptown restaurant/bar, looking for my friend Mike. I haven’t seen Mike in a while, so it will be [...]
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[Source: Approach Anxiety]

Guest Post By My Friend Sara: The Problem With Guys with Too Many Girl Friends

2011-08-13T19:21:00.001-07:00

So last week I wrote about the issue with girls with too many male friends.

I mentioned that if I were a girl I wouldn't trust a guy with too many female friends either. This of course caused a ruckus among my friends because 95% of my friends are girls.

My friend Sara(who is hot and too smart to sleep with me) read the post and ranted at me that she wanted to write a post on why a guy is "Bad news" if he has too many girl friends. She also claimed I was too biased to write such an article because I'd spend half the time defending my own behavior. Which is probably true.

I believe this is the first guest post by a girl on my blog.

Take it away Sara:

Why I would never date Jon, or a guy who has mostly female friends.

I've known Jon or "Sinn" for almost two years at this point. And while I really love him as a friend, I would NEVER date him. It's not because of the "Pickup Artist" stuff either.

It's because he ONLY hangs out with girls. I'm dead serious when I say that in the entire time I've known him, I've seen him with guys twice. Every time I meet up with him for a drink or go to the same parties, I know he's going to have his little Blondtourage with him. And that's fine because we're just friends. But if we were dating, it would be a real issue.

I honestly think that the girls he dates just ignore the obvious evidence. If a guy is ALWAYS hanging out with other girls who he says are "Just friends" that's a huge red flag in a relationship. His last GF who I won't name cause he'll just edit her name out (Jon's Note: Would Not) knows the girl he slept with after they broke up pretty well. She's had dinner with her a bunch of times and while Jon claims he never cheated, he always has "friends" who he ends up sleeping with after break-ups(J...
[Source: The Sinns Of Attraction]

Guest Post By My Friend Sara: The Problem With Guys with Too Many Girl Friends

2011-08-09T14:55:00.001-07:00

Using Language And Touch To Begin The Sexualization Process

2011-08-09T13:22:00.001-07:00

Dear Speed Seduction Student®, Check out this quick video clip where I demonstrate how to use language and touch to begin the sexualization process: var playerhost = (("https:" == document.location.protocol) ? "https://rjpublicvideos.s3.amazonaws.com/vidoftheweek/ezs3js/secure/" : "http://rjpublicvideos.s3.amazonaws.com/vidoftheweek/ezs3js/player/"); document.write(unescape("%3Cscript src='" + playerhost + "flv/95FA7219-A180-EA83-BA596451994D828B.js' … Continue reading →
[Source: Ross Jeffries Uncensored]

Facebook Dating Pictures—For Guys

2011-08-09T12:25:00.001-07:00

How to Get Her Attention and Keep It

2011-08-09T11:20:00.001-07:00

You don’t need model good looks in order to know how to get her attention, it can be achieved by demonstrating good body language, getting social proof, holding eye contact and delivering a solid approach
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[Source: Scandalier]

The War On The Game: Our First Victory

2011-08-09T09:56:00.001-07:00

Cue the Bush voice and Mission accomplished speech.

Last week we drove Neil underground.

Check out the behind the scenes story.

JS-The King Of Content
[Source: The Sinns Of Attraction]

Q & A: Will we ever be the same again?

2011-08-09T09:07:00.001-07:00

Q. "I wanted to share my story with you all and get some feedback.

I have been dating this girl since the end of May, everything was great we have fun we laugh and we have a lot of intimate times together, not always sex but very enjoyable. About two weeks ago her ex came into town and she went to go hang out with him two nights in a row, she said she had some issues to clear up with him. Well the weekend passed he left but our level of intimacy has gone from 10 to a 1.

We spoke about what happened and she said that she was no longer in love with him and she now sees that they could not be together. They are just friends, she said that nothing happened. Ever since then we haven't even kissed for more than 30 seconds.

This past weekend I did something that I never do I asked her to come back to my place to be intimate, she said maybe and the night ended up me taking her home and thats it. I have tried to get close to her without any luck. I dont want to seem like a a-hole guy and say something stupid. So can you please help me? I need some advice."

A. "Whew! That was close, dude! I'm glad you sought out help before you wallowed too long in this unhealthy pool of delusion. Okay, here's the Bottom Line: It sounds like she got together with him again (slept with him, had sex, the Horizontal Bop) and now she's regretting it. Hence, her comment about them not being able to "be together." She's saying that the loving was good, but the drama was too much, even for her. (Yeah, I know she said "nothing happened", but if you believe that, I've got some quality real estate to sell you.)

Time for a little tough-love. (But you came here because you are strong, smart, and willing to change, right?) So here it is:

You are her rebound. For you to make it through this, y...
[Source: Random Thoughts on Dating and Relationship]

Online dating: Photos For Your Profile

2011-08-09T08:31:00.001-07:00

To give other singles an idea of what you look like, most online dating services will require that you include a photo with your profile. Just as you would want to look good for your first date, you'll want to look good in your photo.

It is best to use a color photo. Black and white photos do not have the same level of realism as color photos. Color photo representations are far more accurate.

Make sure that your photo is clear and focused. If you don't have a recent, focused photo of yourself, get one taken. If your features aren't clear in the photo, people may wonder what you have to hide.

Don't wear sunglasses or hats in the photo. Your face should not be hidden behind hands, pets, people, trees, furniture, or signs. Once again, people may wonder if you have something to hide.

Use a photo that shows you looking good. Photos can often express some of your personality and originality! The photo should be a recent photo, not from 10 years ago.

Try to avoid using a group photo, unless it is you with your children or grandchildren. Be proud of your family. Don't use photos where it is hard to who you are in a group of people (for instance, you with friends of the same age).

Avoid any "suggestive" photos. This will attract unwanted characters. If you are unsure of a particular photo, ask yourself - would I want my date's family and friends to see this photo?
[Source: Random Thoughts on Dating and Relationship]